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The attitude that I really, really hate is unforgiveness.

Imagine this situation:
One day, your best friend made a mistake and he are sincerely sorry about it.
He apologised to you.
However, you rejected that apology and ignores him.
And the matter is never resolved.
How would he feel?

Let's speak about this in his shoes now.
Think about how he would go through his life from now.
In guilt, shame, torment.
He wants to reconcile with you so much,
But you failed to give him the chance.

I don't know about you readers.
But in my opinion,
The one who doesn't forgive is at fault more.
Mistakes are inevitable and can be cleared.
But unforgiveness upon someone is like tying a death bondage between yourself and the person involved, and it is decisive.
In the end, both parties will suffer.

Even if the person doesn't admit his/her mistakes,
Forgive.
Release that vile anger within you.
And stop polluting the body that God had created.
In fact,
Why would you want to harbor unforgiveness,
When that person just wouldn't care less about what happened to you?
It's just not worth it.
You will just be torturing yourself day and night.
Forgiveness lets you have control over yourself and your walk with God.
And forgiveness is a fruit of the Spirit after all.

So, to all readers, brothers and sisters in Christ out there,
Please, Please,
If there is anyone whom you haven't forgive,
Try to find time to clear the matter,
And bury the hatchet once and for all.
For we did not come to make enemies on the earth,
But to save souls.